I have had many fathers. I had two fathers who saved my life. I had grandfathers, uncles and friends, and I have learned from all of them. My brother was my best father. How many fathers have you had? One? Perhaps you have had more than that. Let me explain. My dad, Bill Deguire, was a brash, effervescent man. We loved each other dearly, but he was not fully equipped for his role. Although devoted to me, he was self-absorbed. I could count on him in a crisis; he rescued me wh