When disappointments befall you, what do you think? Do you mutter, “Of course, it’s just my luck.” Or, “Nothing ever works out for me.” Or maybe, “It’s just too hard, it’s hopeless.” OR, do you pause, and think, “Let me call my old boss for some advice.” Or, “If I get in a quick run, I will feel better.” Or, “I’m going to meditate for a bit.” The first examples show external locus of control, and the second show an internal locus of control. This mindset can make all the diff